How To Grow A Family Garden


On our quest for more fruits and veggies this year, we decided to branch out and grow a few more veggies than the norm. Eh? Well, the norm for us would be two or three sadly neglected and slumping tomato plants. My dad would be sorely disappointed at the sight of our annual mini-garden. Maybe three plants of the same variety doesn’t even count as a garden, but then again, we are not claiming to be farmers.

In an effort to boost the life expectancy of our plants and to encourage healthy agriculture that, ahem, that actually yields a modest harvest, I am recruiting some help.

It’s called family, people. And I need them.

How To Grow A Family Garden


Perhaps cultivating a family garden will help inspire all the non-hired hands to pitch in and make it a success. Considering that I’ll be nine months pregnant by summer’s end, I will certainly need all the help that can be mustered to push the plants to the finish line and harvest a decent crop. (Seriously, I won’t even be able to see my toes much less capable of bending over to a pluck a bell pepper from its bush.)

A tomato or two from each plant would make my summer. Any more and I’ll consider us a homesteading family.

Complete with our 4×8 patch of land.

Here are five basic tips on growing a family garden.

1. Pick the best area for your garden

For us, it is a given that we plant it in our backyard. We have HOA regulations that we have to abide by and pretty much eliminates any other option. It is the best location for our little garden anyways. The front of the house is clearly out, because, I mean really, who plows up their front lawn for produce? The west side of the house has some drainage problems and doesn’t receive enough sun and the east side has rodent issues that we are addressing. So we are left with the best choice (and the approved one), our backyard. Take the time to think through all of the pros and cons of each location before turning the soil. Doing it twice would not be fun.

2. Cultivate the soil

Everyone’s land is different. Here in the south we have quite a bit of red clay and sand which is not the best for growing a garden. Learn what you may have to mix in with your soil to create a garden bed in which your plants will truly thrive. In other words, know your dirt. Here’s a soil tester that may be of help to you as prepare your bed for your plants.

3. Choose your plants

Research plants that do really well in your climate. Talk with your friends and neighbors about what they are growing this year or have grown in years past. You may find that you can learn from their mistakes and avoid a costly and timely mishap. You also need to keep in mind, however, that sometimes specific plants do better than others for a myriad of reasons. Last year it may have been the tomatoes and this year the cucumbers may be the vegetable that surpasses your expectations…and that you can’t give away fast enough. A family can only eat so many jars of pickles, right?

You could also encourage your children in their love for vegetables by allowing them to be in charge of “their” favorite veggie, selecting the plant or seeds, weeding and watering and harvesting their produce for the family table.
*For those that may be curious: we have a variety of tomato plants, bell peppers and cucumber plants. Wish them luck, please.How To Grow A Family Garden


4. Care for your garden

This is where I typically fall off the wagon. Life gets busy with summer activities and I neglect my poor veggies far too often. Spend time nurturing your plants and they in turn will be good to you. Water them faithfully if your area goes through a dry spell. Remove weeds that may threaten your plants survival and stealing away nutrients that your plant needs. Keep your eyes peeled for bugs on your plants or even signs of rodents that have been nibbling your plants. I have already had issues with bugs on my tomato plants. You may need to research different methods to resolve these issues whether it be dusting your garden or perhaps even building a mesh cover (like seen on this blog) to protect your vegetables from pests, large or small. Or you may be like me and want to research all-natural ways for keeping your garden safe and healthy.

As a way to teach your children responsibility and how to work together, assign each child a section of the garden or their favorite veggies to weed and water during the growing season. They will enjoy watching their plants grow during the coming summer months.

5. Enjoy the Benefits of Your Hard Labor

As harvest time approaches, this is where your children will become increasingly excited about watching the produce grow and ripen, ready for picking. To be honest, I enjoy reaping the rewards of many hours caring for the garden. Make sure that the plants are still properly tied and staked so that you do not lose any produce rotting on the ground. Take the time to teach everyone what that particular vegetable should look like when it is ready to be picked. We recently picked over forty pounds of strawberries at a local farm and I spent a few minutes showing what a ripe strawberry looked and felt like to my girls. Whether you are eating your produce fresh, freezing or canning your harvest, you and your family will realize one thing.

Fresh, homegrown food tastes so much better.


So make it a family affair this summer. Learn about agriculture. Make memories. Teach them about responsibility and hard work. Enjoy fresh, real food. Together.

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12 Things To Buy From Costco

I get all giddy and excited about shopping at Costco. I’m not sure why I love that store so. Perhaps it’s because I can stock up and purchase the amounts of food needed to nourish my large, growing family. Sure, buying at grocery stores with sales and coupons may be more cost effective…on occasion. However, my time and the cost of gas for multiple store trips is also an important factor. Sometimes simplifying my grocery shopping to mainly this “Warehouse Giant” is exactly what our family needs during this busy season of our lives.

So, flashing my Costco membership card and entering the wholesale club is truly a special treat. Knowing that prices can sometimes be a bit more than what I may find on a given week at a local grocery store, I try my best to be savvy when I shop at Costco. Here are some of my top staples that I purchase from Costco.

12 Things to Buy From Costco

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1. Butter

I have found that their organic butter is a better price than purchasing it at Target, Trader Joes or Whole Foods. It is a great deal for two pounds of butter. We have also recently started using Kerrygold butter which is made from grass-fed cows. It is absolutely delicious. We still use the organic butter for baking and cooking and such, but use the grass-fed butter to flavor bread, rice, potatoes, etc. Costco has the best price on the Kerrygold that I have found.

2. Sour Cream

I get Organic Valley sour cream when it is on sale and I have coupons or sometimes I grab a 16 oz. tub of Trader Joes organic sour cream. However, grabbing a 3 lb tub of sour cream from Costco has been easiest for me lately and saves gas and time from chasing deals at multiple stores. While I do try to do my best with purchasing healthy, quality items for my family to enjoy, there are times when conveniently getting the quantity needed trumps store-chasing. (And yes, we use three lbs just about every week.) We typically have baked potatoes, taco salad and other dishes that require sour cream. For example, I just made my favorite biscuit recipe this morning which uses two cups of sour cream. Sour cream is a staple for our family, for sure.

3. Milk

Costco seems to have the best price around for milk. However, I must admit that we have stopped getting it from there that often. The jugs make pouring difficult, even my husband and I are lucky if we manage to not spill any on the counter. For me, paying a little bit more for a gallon that I can handle without waste is worth it to me. I would LOVE to find a local farmer to obtain fresh milk, but until then or until we own a cow (laughing over that one!), we merely look for the best price in our local stores.


I purchase our produce here, there and everywhere, but there are a number of items that I nearly always pick up at Costco. It has become my go-to place for frozen organic broccoli spears, organic whole carrots, cantaloupe, organic spinach or spring mix and bananas. The prices on these select pieces beat Trader Joes and Whole Foods just about every time. For instance, a one pound bag of organic whole carrots costs $0.87 at Trader Joes, but I can get a ten pound bag of organic carrots for $6.79 at Costco, bringing it to roughly $0.68 per lb. I know that to most people ten pounds of carrots sounds like a lot, but if you make your own stock, eat them raw, make soups/stews/pot pies or cook them as a side dish, or use them in desserts like this one, you go through them rather quickly. You could also prep and freeze them.

5. Coconut Oil

I recently read an article on the coconut oil that Costco carries. It was persuasive enough that I purchased a tub from there the next time I was in the store. The price was decent and the quality of the oil was equally as satisfying. I enjoyed being able to get a large amount and not having to wait for a sale and/or free shipping from an online company. The fact that I am purchasing the coconut oil in a store such as Costco allows me to be able to get that particular brand at an even cheaper rate than you would find on Amazon or even on the company’s website. I love bulk buying.

Here’s the link to the article that I read:

6. Baking Soda

While on our healthy living journey, we have found that we use quite a bit of baking soda. Like many, we obviously use it for baking and for numerous family favorite recipes. It is also used as a paste to help scour out our oven, remove film in our bathtubs and serves as a large component in my simple 3-ingredient homemade laundry detergent. Needless to say, we go through quite a bit of baking soda in our household. Buying it in bulk enables me to save nearly 50% per pound, even without a coupon or sale price. A 13.5 pound bag of Arm & Hammer baking soda is only $5.75. I’ll take it.

7. Yeast

Over the years, I had heard about people buying their yeast in bulk and pretty much ignored the sage advice until I sat down and crunched the numbers. Yeast packets typically run over a dollar (sometimes $1.99) for 0.75 ounces. You can imagine my elation to be able to nab a two pound bag of yeast for $4.49. Wow. I could not believe how much money I had been spending on the individually pre-measured packets. Granted, I was often buying them on sale and with a coupon, but now that we no longer get a newspaper with coupons, I was just buying them at the price available. No more.  Ten cents per 3/4 of an ounce tops two dollars any day.

8. Sugar

I had been buying our organic sugars from Whole Foods bulk section, however I found that Costco boasted better prices on organic cane juice sugar and turbinado cane sugar. Since I was already buying in bulk and had storage containers, switching to Costco was no biggie. I am buying a bit more at a time this way, but it has been great for prepping ahead and stocking our freezer with homemade goodies. Having plenty of dry goods on hand also inspires me to make as many things as I can from scratch…which is just the nudge I need. The raw sugar (turbinado) is $7.99 for six pounds ($1.33 per lb) and the cane juice sugar is $8.59 for ten pounds ($0.86 per lb). We try to limit our sugar intake, but when we do use a sweetener, it feels good to use a more natural and unrefined option.

9. Vinegar

Just like the baking soda, our family goes through vinegar at a fairly rapid rate. We use it in our homemade glass cleaner, during the monthly cleaning of our coffee maker (I haven’t missed a month since I posted this technique!!), as a natural rinsing agent in our dishwasher, in our homemade all-purpose cleaner (will share soon) and in various food recipes. I can’t live life without it. It is $3.29 for a large five liter bottle.

10. Raw Honey

This is one that I’m still wanting to try. It is a new product that they just brought in, but I didn’t have room in our budget this week. I will get it next week. It is a large bottle of raw, unfiltered honey that is produced in the USA. I can’t remember the size of the bottle, but the price was $14.99. I do know that it was a much better deal than the raw honey that I picked up from Whole Foods. I love using honey in my homemade bbq sauce, topping a generous spoon on my favorite biscuit recipe, and using it to sweeten my evening cup of Mother-to-be herbal tea.

11. Brown Rice

I shared last week on my facebook page that our family has started a new menu tradition. It’s called “Beans and Rice Wednesday” and we all love it. It helps relieve some of the typical Wednesday afternoon and evening chaos and takes the question mark out of dinner prep. I finally bit the bullet, put on my big girl pants and learned how to successfully cook brown rice so that we all enjoy it. I don’t even miss our old organic white rice. While strolling through the aisles and just browsing the shelves to see new products that they’ve added, I realized that buying my brown rice from Costco instead of Trader Joes would save my family several dollars. I was so excited to have another easy staple to add to my Costco list, an item that typically never goes on sale or has coupons at other stores. It is $12.39 for an eight pound bag which equals to roughly $1.50 per pound. Other store prices that I found for organic brown basmati rice was $2.50 per pound.  We eat rice at least twice a week, so saving money on this staple makes me happy.

12. Cakes

When you are in a pinch and need something quick for parties and special events, Costco has the best prices around on their sheet cakes. Most stores charge over $20 for 1/4 of a sheet cake, however, Costco sells their 1/2 half sheet cakes for only $18. Their cakes are delicious as well, excellent flavor and very moist. So when you need a helping hand as a hostess, Costco is your friend.


I am truly trying to really reign in our grocery budget (again) and Costco is a huge help with reaching this goal for 2015. While I have gotten back into couponing (on a very limited basis), there are certain staples that are not effected by this decision. Shopping at Costco for the things listed above helps me not feel like I should be hunting for them at other stores. Costco has the best price for these twelve items—all the time—end of story.

     While Costco does not accept manufacturer coupons, they do offer their own coupons for some products. The coupon deals change every month and since 2014 the coupons are now automatically applied at the checkout. No need to haul around the coupon book or clip anything. (I am a HUGE fan of this change!)

I did want to add that you can use the electronic coupon rebates for Costco products. You can save even more money on the basics like milk, eggs, cheese, meat, fruit and veggies. You can also save money on household items like paper towels, paper plates, diapers, plastic storage bags and so much more.

Starting today Costco will have their Dixie plates on sale and their Ziploc baggies. I plan on submitting both of these for the SavingStar rebates next week. There is a $5/$30 SC Johnson rebate that includes the bulk boxes of Ziploc baggies and also a rebate for $1/2 Ziploc baggies. There is also a rebate for $5/$25 Dixie/Vanity Fair rebate. Again I will maximize this deal with Costco’s wholesale price, their store coupon and this electronic rebate. (Both of these rebates are cumulative until you reach the required amount…so no need to drop a ton of money all in one trip.)

Here are some of my favorite electronic coupon apps.

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So what do you do to help save money on staples? Do you have a certain store that helps with non-coupon items such as these? Anything that you would add to this Costco list? Have a warehouse club membership to Costco or perhaps a similar store? Share. I’d love to hear your input.

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Seven Second Trimester Tips

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You are breathing a deep sigh of relief right now. The difficulties and worries of the first trimester are behind you and you couldn’t be happier. The little life growing inside you is making its presence known in more ways than one. Embrace this new season of your pregnancy and enjoy each and every blessed moment with these simple tips.

1. Move It, Move It

The exhaustion of those early days are over and you feel like a new woman…of sorts. Capitalize on that second wind of energy while you can. Walking, exercising (cleared by your doctor/midwife) and physical conditioning are all wonderful ways for keeping your body feeling its best and preparing you for labor. All too soon, fatigue of the third trimester may overwhelm you in the dwindling days of your pregnancy. Keep moving while you can—that “beached whale” feeling is just around the corner. (Sorry. I have to be honest.)

2. Devour Real Food

If you suffered with morning sickness and different food aversions during those first weeks, well, I sincerely hope that the nauseating thoughts and sights of certain foods are no longer a concern. Take this time to focus on preparing nutritious, whole foods that will nurture both you and your baby. A well-balanced diet is crucial for not only the health but also the development of your child. Eat well and eat wise.

3. Drink Up

Proper hydration is vital to keeping your body healthy and strong. Flushing your body with water will help rid your body of toxins to ward off urinary tract infections, avoid water retention and keep your digestive system moving. Drinking plenty of water is essential in maintaining healthy blood cells, vital for good lactation and an important way to combat preterm labor in the third trimester. Your body is constantly changing, and therefore, you need plenty of water to handle the many developments of motherhood. So get in touch with your dromedary side and guzzle down your eight recommended glasses of water every day. It really is important.

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4. Take a Babymoon

At this point in most pregnancies, a mother is often feeling her best, more energized and like herself. However in a few short months, you will be welcoming a new baby into your home and your day-to-day life will change. Take the time to go away for a few days and just relax with your husband. Enjoy being a couple before life with a slumbering infant and a loaded diaper bag shadow your every move. Even if you have other children and this is not your first “rodeo”, a babymoon is still important. Spending relaxing, quality time together as a couple may be more refreshing than you or your spouse may realize. Remember, extravagancy is not the goal. Rest is the desired end.

5. Dress the Bump

Your expanding front is a flashing neon sign of your pregnancy. You are beyond the slightly chubby state and your rounded silhoutte is proudly proclaiming to the world that you are with child. Embrace your new shape. An expectant mother blossoming with child is a beautiful sight. Dressing your bump does not have to be expensive, so shop smart. My maternity wardrobe is a mix of consignment sale, ebay, clearance rack, thrift store and retail finds. If you are planning on a number of future pregnancies, invest in quality pieces that are timeless and classic. I have pieces that I wore during my first pregnancy over eleven years ago and they are still in excellent shape. Another idea would be to borrow or trade clothes with family or friends to help keep cost down. Maternity clothes can be adorable and still not break the bank. Have fun.

*For example, my denim dress (seen above) was found at The Gap on sale for $4.97  (retail price $59.99) with an additional 40% off. I received another 10% off for shopping on Tuesday and also used a giftcard. I was quite ecstatic with my $2.69 find.

6. Sit Still

Yes, I do realize that I just told you earlier to move it while you can and that I am now telling you to sit still. You may be scratching your head by this point, however, hang in there. In the midst of eagerly crossing off the days until your due date, sit back and enjoy your changing body. All of it. Your swollen belly? Stroke it and whisper sweet words of love to your tiny babe. The constant kicks? Marvel at the first wiggles of life, movements as gentle as the fluttering of butterfly wings. Sit back and murmur a quiet prayer of thanks for this amazing gift of motherhood. In the stillness of those moments, you will not only find yourself humbled by your many blessings, but will also realize that the small trials in your journey really are just that—small. Perspective is everything.

7. Remember

You are truly blessed. The ability to conceive and carry a baby to term is a precious dream of many women and the season of childbearing is such a small window in your life. Seize the moments. Capture your thoughts on paper, document your journey through photographs. Nine months will fly by and the years of mothering your child, well, they go by even faster. Time stops for no one, but you can offset the fleeting years by treasuring every. single. day.  Starting now.

Enjoy your days, dear mom, and welcome to the second trimester.

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10 Things Every New Mom Should Know

10 things every new mom should know

1.Ponytails are hot.

Granted, there may be days ahead that you want a more stylish updo or hair style, but quick and easy ponytails can be attractive too. You can add extra detail to an otherwise plain ponytail with a small front section braided and pulled into the tail or you can wrap the band with your own hair and secure with bobby pins. In the end, nothing trumps having your hair pulled back and out of your way as your hands are busy with your new baby, chores or life in general. And yes, a simple ponytail is a hairstyle.

2. Body shape isn’t everything.

Some may say that your body will never be the same and they are more than likely right. Your hips may never be as small as they were before childbirth and your chest size may never be as it was before either. Some ladies struggle with a little extra weight in the middle, complete with stretchmarks. Is your body ruined? Absolutely not. You have just completed the most amazing and miraculous journey. You were given a gift and blessed with the capability to nurture and birth a healthy, beautiful little one into this world. So will your body shape never be exactly the same—in spite of diet and exercise? Possibly not. However, as you catch that first glimpse of your new babe, you will realize without a doubt that body shape isn’t everything and that, sure, a size 4 is definitely a thing of the past. Your body may never be the same and you are okay with this fact. Because you will never be the same. You’re a mom.

3. Nursing is the norm now.

When I had my first baby nearly eleven years ago, nursing was just beginning to really be encouraged again to expectant moms. Since then, I have seen an even stronger push to help mothers realize the countless benefits for both mother and baby. I, for one, am very grateful for the support and information that is available today. With my last two babies, I struggled with low milk supply (and had to offer formula supplement to one of them). Thankfully my birthing center is very, VERY helpful (they have a 100% success rate) and I was able to exclusively nurse my last one. My advice to you would be this: read up on how be proactive with building your milk supply before delivery, seek help from a lactation consultant after birth if needed (they are awesome), and don’t give up too early.
*While I’m rather passionate about nursing, I do know that some struggle and for reasons unknown are unable to nurse. I was somewhat in your boat with my fourth and cried many tears over not being “enough” for him. In the end, nourishing your baby (however that may be) is your ultimate goal.

4. Nights don’t last forever.

There may be days ahead when you will think back and call me a liar. I assure, I am not. And just as certainly, nights don’t really last forever. Whether you are ready for it or not, morning will come. The sun will rise and other people will begin stirring. Trust me on this. What should you do to bypass or shorten this phase? Encouraging a good schedule from day one is important in avoiding a season of nocturnal parenting. Hang in there.

5. Rock the mini-van.

I have to be honest here. I could not wait to be a mini-van mom. Seriously. I thought that they were adorable and such a sweet a reminder of this new journey that Hubs and I were embarking on, parenting. We have had a number of mini-vans over the years due to different issues. I was completely smitten with our Ford Windstar with one sliding door on the passenger side. What ease. Then we upgraded to a newer Ford Windstar with two sliding doors. Wow, now I felt spoiled. Then last year, our van was utterly demolished from a deer deciding to jump the entire road (both lanes) and falling short. On our hood. At that point, we embraced a whole new breed, a Honda Oddessey eight-seater, with automatic sliding doors. I am on cloud nine with just a push of a button. So spread the word: mini-vans are the cool cars.

6. Everyone forgets diapers occasionally.

Don’t hyperventilate. We’ve all been there. When your frantic search in the nursery or in your diaper bag still comes up empty, do what you have to. I’ve squeezed my babies in diapers a couple sizes too small or wrapped them snugly in ones too large. Whatever helps you get by until someone can get to the store or the cloth ones can fully dry, roll with it. If you can, ask to borrow one from a friend if you are out and about. Just don’t sweat it. Life goes on.

7. Paper plates are cool.

Every new mom needs to have a helping hand. For me, a “mother’s helper” takes on a whole new light. After a decade of being in the ministry, most of which has been away from either side of our family, I have learned to cope without a support system in tact. I’ve learned to cut corners. Anything that I can do to simplify the adjustment period of a new addition to the family, I will do it. One area in which I try to prepare is to stockpile paper plates. They will be your new BFF. Your husband will sing your praises and you will be able to slumber sweetly knowing that your kitchen is not overflowing with dirty dishes. Paper plates are the bomb. Get some.

8. Master the art of multi-tasking.

A baby is a time hog, especially during those early weeks. However, you can accomplish more than you think possible if you learn to multi-task. Try to get the dishwasher, washing machine, and dryer going at the same time. You will feel like a million bucks. Sheesh. This is the twenty-first century. Go ahead and whip out the vacuum cleaner, crockpot and breadmachine. You can have the dishes washed, laundry done, floors cleaned and dinner with fresh bread accomplished all from a few moments of work between feedings. Caroline Ingalls never had it so good, huh?

9. Nap like a pro.

This is one area that I have to work at constantly. Unlike some women, I struggle to fall asleep during the day. I’m always listening for the baby’s breathing, checking the blankets and basically fussing like a mother hen. So I am preaching to myself here. Rest is important. Your milk supply, your healing, your hormonal and emotional state all hinge on your physical well being. Don’t try to be supermom. Rest when you can, accept help when it is offered and take good care of yourself. Those early days of infancy and motherhood are fleeting and precious days…ones that you’d like to be able to recall in the years to come. Sleep, mama. You need it.

10. Kiss your man.

Two has become three before you could even blink. While your world may have transformed into a fog land of feedings, spit up and constant diapers, don’t forget your husband. Remember the days when the image of him warmed your thoughts constantly and his arrival home was the highlight of your day. Make an effort to lay the baby down in the evenings and have time together. You need it just as much as he does. Having a baby changes things, but your love should not. Don’t forget your love for him in the midst of motherhood. The very presence of that tiny wiggling new person represents your love for one another, a love that should merely deepen as you become parents. You see, love doesn’t diminish when you become parents—it multiplies.

Now go lay one on him.

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 Enjoy this season, new mama. It is truly precious.